Marriage after baby Solutions and problems

You have sex half as often, and it's twice the hassle. Do you like sleeping more? You're tired, you're covered in slobber, and your spouse has suddenly transformed from Sexy Stud to Superparent.

Of course you're in love, you're just not in the mood for getting naked under the covers. Step one, is to get in the mood. And the best way is to plan time for having sex. Sure, people joke about making dates for sex, but "remember, when you were dating, you did plan when you were going to have sex. You got ready for a night out and thought about it beforehand."

Just because you're married doesn't mean you can't make a hot date. Get a sitter, shave your legs, and flirt a little.

As for increasing the frequency of sex on nondate nights, experienced parents recommend making sure your bedroom is baby-free at bedtime. "There's nothing like rolling on top of a toy caterpillar that starts to play 'Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star' to kill the mood," 

Thinking She is Having Orgasms When She Isn't

You may think that your lover is having multiple orgasms (or even AN orgasm) when she is not. She may make a bunch of noises, get really wet, and even TELL YOU she is cumming. But is she really?
Grab a Cosmopolitan sometime and look at how many articles and comments on faking orgasms. I'm not saying that YOUR GIRL is faking orgasms EVERY TIME but... chances are there have been a few episodes of love making where she was CRAVING something other than what you were doing. 
When this happens women just want it to be over and encourage you to cum. It doesn't mean you are awful in bed; just that being a mind-blowing

lover EVERY TIME takes some specialized knowledge. 
If you are giving your girl orgasms (and absolutely 100% sure of it) then congratulations! You're one of the few guys who is ACTUALLY pleasing a woman REALLY WELL. But if you're not, it is crucial that you learn how... 

Some form of addiction what are your issues?

You might be

abused, misused, taken advantage of, and probably left in the dust. I am being very blatant. Most couples one or both may have some form of addiction.

Gambling,

Alcohol, Drugs, Pornography, Sexual Addictions and Affairs. I’m sure we can make the list a little longer, but these are probably the main ones we find in relationships. Most of the time because of childhood issues never being resolved it effects are relationships, causes many arguments, and most of us will probably have doubts about whether that person loves us or not.

Do you make mistakes in your relationship??

The sad truth is, everyone makes these mistakes. You, me will by default make these crucial mistakes as soon as we begin to develop feelings and attraction for someone. Unless we bring consciousness and intelligence into the process our relationships will be stressful and difficult.

Think about it for a minute. Just about how difficult it is to have a relationship with someone you truly love. It's as if the more you love them the harder it is. Why is that? Well you're about to find out.

I am so glad that I learned about these things and had the privilege to serve so many as a relationship counselor. I hope you will let me share my research with you. I am sure you won't be sorry. Just give me a call I can help you

Struggling in a Relationship I can Help

You absolutely do not have to be married to understand the struggles with maintaining a healthy, balanced relationship  In fact, there are often concerns in couples counseling that are addressed completely differently. I have experience in working with couples, regardless of sexual orientation or relational status, that includes self-care, improving communication and setting relational goals for bettering the relationship.

Marriage and Divorce I can Help

Many kinds of couples find their way to counseling with me. I see married couples, couples with step and blended families, new and old couples, co-habiting couples, bisexual and gay couples, swinging couples, and premarital couples. I enjoy working with the interplay between partners. Most clients come in to better their communications and lessen specific conflicts around decisions and patterns of behavior.