You have sex half as often, and it's twice the hassle. Do you like sleeping more? You're tired, you're covered in slobber, and your spouse has suddenly transformed from Sexy Stud to Superparent.
Of course you're in love, you're just not in the mood for getting naked under the covers. Step one, is to get in the mood. And the best way is to plan time for having sex. Sure, people joke about making dates for sex, but "remember, when you were dating, you did plan when you were going to have sex. You got ready for a night out and thought about it beforehand."
Just because you're married doesn't mean you can't make a hot date. Get a sitter, shave your legs, and flirt a little.
As for increasing the frequency of sex on nondate nights, experienced parents recommend making sure your bedroom is baby-free at bedtime. "There's nothing like rolling on top of a toy caterpillar that starts to play 'Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star' to kill the mood,"
